Steps To Saving a Relationship
One of the biggest mistakes men make when looking for steps to saving a relationship is trying to figure out what to do next. But before you get on your offense, you must first find out what went wrong.
There are so many reasons why breakups happen. But there are only two types of breakups. You left her or she left you. It’s never one sided.
I’m going to assume that she left you.
Now, for the painful part…
Women who leave men, actually had made up their minds months or even years before they actually told you. In their view, the romance died out slowly over a period of time. And the worst part is that you never saw it coming.
The bigger question now is why did your romance die out. Trust your gut on this one and think back when you first started noticing a difference from your partner.
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Did she lose her excitement when she saw you or heard your voice?
Was she not as intimate?
Did she make excuses NOT to see you?
Was she getting more irritated at you for no reason?
Maybe she went out more with her girlfriend?
Did she take a little vacation without you?
Was she slow to return your calls, texts, emails etc..
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Think back when this started to happen. Now, think back a little further, because that’s when she actually started to lose her attraction to you.
But what the hell did you do wrong? (You probably don’t know)
Here are some common reasons:
You were lacking in the romance department
You focused on work too much
You didn’t listen
You let her walk all over you
She lost her trust in you
You were just two entirely different people
There was a big misunderstanding
You were abusive
But here is the big key:
It doesn’t matter why she left you. In a woman’s mind, the past is the past. Men try to rationalize a woman’s actions from a man’s point of view. This is wrong and you will never win.
What you need to determine now, is if your ex has past that point of what I call “no return”. Once she has moved past this hypothetical emotional point. You’re done. It’s best to focus your energy in taking care of your well-being.
Here are some signs that she hasn’t passed that point:
She initiates contact with you no longer than one month. (There are exceptions to the rule..it can go on for years.)
She gets jealous if you’re dating someone new
She greets you on your birthday or big holidays
She wants to hang out with you
She didn’t delete you from her online social network
She tries to get you jealous
She doesn’t avoid you at social events
There are many more subtle clues, but what you do next is the tricky part. You have come back into her life with a plan…
…a plan to win her back.
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Act fast before it’s too late. In other words, act fast before she’s sleeping with a new man. You don’t think it could happen? You didn’t think your breakup could happen either.
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