How to mend broken heart if you’re still in love with your ex? Situations like this will probably be one of the most painful experiences you’ll ever go through, it’s tough to move on, if at all. Are you still looking for closure or are you looking for ways to reconnect with your ex?
Because breakups end for a variety of reasons, there really isn’t just one answer. But most breakups are one-sided affairs where your girl just came out of nowhere and blindsided you with “I just need some space”. It’s difficult to accept especially when you don’t see the glow your girl once had for you.
Breakups usually occur in your ex’s mind way before the actual breakup, usually months, and sometimes years before. It’s a build up that most on the wrong side of a separation didn’t see coming. Your girl didn’t know your relationship was sliding down until she came across someone new. Did you give you give enough attention to your girl? Because if you didn’t, this other guy is filling the void. But this is often a false attraction and why most rebound relationships fail.
If you want to get back with your ex you first need to mend your heart. Take time off from her. Try to go on with your life. This will be tough because there will be days when you feel like you can’t move. Take a class and learn a new hobby – preferably something physical. Like a martial art or train for a marathon. This is good time to shoot for some personal goals. Transform that negative energy, (Yes, it’s still energy) into positive energy.
This is the fast track to healing yourself. Your girl will see a new and better you.
Forget about the past and focus on reconnecting with your girl in the future. It’s important for you not to put any blame on yourself or your ex girlfriend. You want her to be happy but more importantly you want yourself to be happy.
Think of your space apart like a rubber band. Be a strong anchor and give your girl some space, regardless if the bonds do break. If there is a piece of you in her, and I’m sure there is, there is hope that she’ll come back to you.
It’s important for you to express to your ex how you feel about her but there is a proper way to do it and a wrong way. Most men do it the wrong way, pushing her further away. Most of your expression is indirect, focusing on bettering yourself and your ability to be super strong during times like this.
Your girl will soon sense that you’re more than ok, and this will pique her interest. Most likely she will try to get in contact with you again, but this is a trap. If you say or do the wrong things, you’ll push her away again.
Do You Want To Completely Mend Your Heart, Win Back Your Girl and Never Lose Her Again, Using Nothing But a No-Nonsense, Step-by-Step Methods?