In case you haven’t noticed, women think and speak entirely different from men. Most guys acknowledge this, but still fall into the same trap of trying to communicate with a woman as if she was a man.

That was a big mistake I made when looking for ways on how to get my girl back. My pain…your gain.

Here is a beginners guide on decoding a woman’s words right before she broke up with you.

Good Chance of Winning Her Back If She Told You:

“How can you do that to me!”

“You told me that you would stop drinking!”

“When are you going to change!?”

“I don’t know if I can trust you”

“You’re cheating on me!”

“Who’s phone number is this?!”

“You’re too much of a player”

50/50 Chance of Winning Her Back If She Left You With:

“I’m confused”

“I don’t know if I can forgive you for hitting me”

“You need to grow up”

“What about our future?”

“These are not my panties!”

“I hate you”

“I hardly see you anymore!”

“I thought you love me!”

Your Chances are Slim If She Left You With These Words:

“You’re nice and all but….”

“I just need some space to think things out”

“I love you, but I’m not in love with you”

“You have no backbone”

“I just want to be friends”

“You don’t get it”

“It’s not you, it’s me”

“I won’t cheat on you again”

There you go. A quick cheat sheet on where you stand. There are about a million variations from each of the sentences above, and most men will try to “rationalize” their situation as different. Don’t fall for it, you’ve been warned, but most guys won’t get it until history repeats itself over and over again.

Usually, after getting dumped by a woman for the second time, come back to this page and hopefully you’ll start to understand and take action to prevent heartbreak from ever happening again.