“How Do I Win Back My Girlfriend?!” With a Plan and With Patience…

Broken up recently? Do you feel like every time you try to win back your girlfriend she just becomes more distant?

So I know that you really want to get your ex girlfriend back so bad that it actually hurts. But don’t let these emotions control you; this is what you need to fight back so your ex won’t push back. It sounds counterintuitive at first, right now you’re ex needs some space and you’re going to give it to her, ok?

This includes trying to get in touch with your ex. Stop with the any type of communication, this will only push you back further, I know it’s hard especially after a couple of weeks, but be strong and things will pay off.

So what are you going to do? Work on yourself. Take up a new hobby, exercise, join a class, do a little traveling, do something new, refreshing and challenging. I know you could barely drag yourself out of bed, much less, do anything else, but its in times like this is where you’re going to have to be a Spartan.

I want you to work on looking good. If you need to lose weight and shape up, this is the absolute perfect time to do it. Right now, you have so much energy, that you need to use it for your own personal gains. You will look better, feel better, and your ex will sense it also.

Now if you’re ex, tries to get in touch with you, don’t reply. Don’t answer your phone or reply to her texts and email. Stay tough and your ex will start wondering why you’re not chasing her. You are now reversing the situation and having your ex gravitate her thoughts to you.

Now, if your ex hasn’t tried getting in contact with you, don’t worry. Keep on working on yourself. Push forward inch by inch everyday, do something physical to release all of your energy and don’t focus on trying to get your ex back. All of this is counterintuitive to most men, it might take some time to get used to, but this is your only hope. So don’t mess it up.

A question that comes up a lot is what if your ex has a birthday coming up? My answer to that is stick to the script. Don’t greet her; attend any parties or anything like that. If you have, to get out of town and put your phone away, to help you take your mind off of things and continue to work on improving different aspects of your life.

Another obstacle you’re going to face is in your own head. It’s constantly wondering what went wrong or what you want to say to your ex to “get things off of your chest”, this is a big mistake that and you’re going to have to get in tune with you’re your more positive thoughts in you to do battle with the negative thoughts.

It might sound bad, but these are times where you need to be selfish and to think of yourself. Give this plan a few months to sink in and watch your ex come back to you. But be patient and stay positive.

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